How Do You Meet Other Swingers?

There are a couple of ways of meeting other swingers.  It is through trial and error that you and your partner will find what works best for you.  Clearly going up to strangers and asking if they are interested in having sex might work for a small percentage but expect some some nasty responses.  Best to try the conventional avenues thereby ensuring a happier out come :)

  - Join an Adult Dating Site.  Most online adult sites will ask that you complete a detailed his and her questionnaire.  This will allow you to clearly express what you two are about and what you are looking for.  By adding photographs to a gallery, potential matches are able to get a feel for your partners build.  Most genuine swingers are not that hung up on physical attributes but obviously grossly overweight people could be a turn off.  

- Go to one of the so-called "Adult Social Club”  These are a great place to meet "people" however please be aware that less than 10% of the couples at these parties are truly swingers. You will meet more people who are "Out to see what swingers look like" or "Had nothing better to do Saturday night", than you will perspective partners. These are money-makers for the club owners and generally attract the exhibitionists wishing to show off their new clothes, their gym-fit bodies or their new breast implants. You can meet people but you must screen harshly through the fakes, frauds and phony’s and search out the real swingers. Tip: Be extremely forward with new people. Ask them politely "How often in the last year they have swung with anyone?”

- Go to a Swinging House Party. You will find only authentic swingers that these parties. The biggest difficulty is that real swingers screen harshly who are invited so that they can keep out the onlookers and the phony’s, so getting an invitation without knowing someone within the lifestyle can be almost impossible. But, if you do ever get invited, WOW, you will be truly glad that you did. These can be some of the greatest nights in your sexual life. A home full of like-minded couples, all there to enjoy the fellowship, friendship and open sex. You will come home tired, exhausted and with an incredible smile that will last for days.

- Go to an "On-premise Swing Club". This is usually a group of people who get together monthly. The parties are organized similarly to that of the "Adult Social Clubs” the difference is that people actually interact sexually. Be prepared to be involved in sexual activity of some form. These are not the places to sit in the corner and take mental pictures of others having sex. You will meet great people who are there to meet you. They are friendly and open to meeting you. Membership is required at these types of clubs and your first or second visits will usually be on a "temporary membership" or "probationary admission". If you are a wallflower or onlooker you may find that your membership application may be denied. Tip: If you are looking to meet genuine people and enjoy open sexuality then these are the people for you, but if you are into watching only then we would probably recommend a strip joint.