What To Wear To A Swinger's Party

Tonight’s the evening! You and your partner are getting ready to hit the nearby swinger’s party. You're looking forward to meeting up with some great new people, who knows what can happen.  All that's left now is to decide what to wear!

Remember when deciding: the better you dress, the more likely you are to connect.  You want to look hot and make heads turn!!  Most  men and women are very visual and you'll want them to think 'WOW'. Sometimes, all people will give you is one glance. First impressions are important. If they don't like what they see they're not going to give you their time. Sad but true, specifically in  swinging.


For Women:

You can be as daring as you like at an adult club - feel free to use your imagination! Sexy outfits are a hit.

If you are on a date with another couple, a informal but sexy outfit is very good, get a little sexy but not over the top as you don't know what the other woman will be wearing.

No underwear is often a crowd pleaser! As far as underwear is concerned lacey boyshorts,, thongs, bikinis are the norm (avoid the granny knickers!) A good bra with push up power is good too, everyone will want to see a nice bra - be warned! High heels turn  heads, but be careful if you are not used to wearing them as you'll soon be kicking them off as your feet begin to ache!


The key point is to wear things that flatter one's body shape and bring out your best bits!

For Men

Ok, men tend to struggle a bit more than women in the dressing department. Your best choice is a nice, solid colour shirt, pair of black trousers and some real leather shoes. If you have an amazing physique a crisp, close fitting shirt will show the ladies how good  your pecs are!


Never wear a Soccer shirt, or Rugby team logo shirt - we don't care if your team won the Super 15 or the Castle Curry Cup or PSL! - just  don't do it, please. Baseball caps are a no-no, as are sleazy excessive gold chains.

What about underwear for the guys? Many swingers don't wear underwear, it's personal choice, but if you do please make sure  they are clean and presentable - no fraying, off-white, baggy Y- fronts thanks! Obvious stuff really, but sometimes people just don't think really.

The Two classes of Swinger dressers


1. Beginner Swingers

They wear more conservative clothing, usually |because they do not know any better, they tend to dress as they quite simply would at a normal  club or party. Many wear jeans which is a no-no at most adult clubs. If you’re dressed as a geek in a polo neck sweater and grey  trousers bearing no skin, you will be perceived as a 'non-player' Your chances of hooking up are based on people’s perceptions of how you look - remember this.


2. Experienced Swingers

2nd, 3rd, 4th time plus swingers - they have learned what to wear as they've gone along, there will be bear skin in abundance.  They know this is no disco - it is a sex club and dress accordingly. Mini skirts, fishnets, s

Remember, dress to make a good impression. Right or wrong, people judge on first impressions. So, if you're attending a party as  a voyeur only, put your crotchless basque and stilettos back in your closet for the evening as you may give the wrong message.  Also, compliment your partner - guys if your lady dresses hot and sexy, you need too, otherwise it may look like only one of you wants to play.

Most importantly dress to feel comfortable, sexy and confident. Self-confidence and being at ease with your body is a big turn-on.

Have fun xx